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A big trend right now is for brides to be big, huge, I’m talking monster bridezilla’s, so today I’m playing a bait-and-switch on you. Surprise! Its opposite day! Instead of it being Trend Tuesday, today’s blog post is Un-Trend Tuesday.

Ladies, when did it become cool to invite your closest friends, sisters, and relatives to be part of your bridal party on your big day, only to boss them around? In my book, never! These girls want to make your journey as enjoyable and un-stressful as possible, so please provide them the same sort of luxury leading up to your wedding.

They are there for you on this (crazy) ride, and you’ll all have a better time if you’re happy and relaxed. That being said, just follow these simple rules and you will be well on your way to becoming the coolest bride ever! So you may not have a reality TV show, but at least you’ll be keeping your friends and family…

Give them color swatches to choose from, and then let them pick their own bridesmaid dresses. That way they’ll have something they love and that’s flattering, and you’ll have them looking just the way you pictured!

And if you don’t like their choices? Chances are they kept the receipt, just in case. But seriously, how cute are these mismatched bridesmaids? You know you’re into it.

If you want them to wear heels, take care of their feet. They’ll put up for it for you, but your girls will be a little sad if they end the night with blisters or twisted ankles! Please don’t make them wobble-walk on grass; think about investing in heel-stoppers.

Everyone wants to dance the night away, but they don’t want to brave the floor in bare feet. Provide comfy shoes and you’ll be everyone’s Cinderella!

Your girls want to celebrate with you on the big day. It shouldn’t just be you that’s getting pampered. Make sure that you’re providing food and drink the morning-of.

Your bridal party loves helping you out, but it doesn’t mean that they also don’t love being showered with presents as “Thank You’s!” Remember what they’re doing to assist you may be coming at a cost to them. If your ladies are into partying and celebrating, it would be good to have something in a kit for the next day, especially after the bachelorette or wedding night.

Personalized pressies are always sweet; it’s a special way to remember being a part of your wedding!

Offer to pay for your bridal party’s hair or makeup services, especially if you expect them to rock crazy-complicated hair dos.

If your bridal party members are all unfamiliar, introduce all the bridesmaids beforehand so they have time to be friends. Fun outings, lunch, or nights out are a great way to get them together before the big day.

Let your girls know about creepy groomsmen, or cuties if any are single. Hey, you’d expect the same courtesy if the tables were turned!

Don’t make any of your bridesmaids compete for your attention. Things can get awkward fast if things start to turn into a competition if people are constantly vying for your time.

Remember that your ladies are happy to help out with most things; DIY projects, picking up dresses, and mailing invites. All these things are to be expected. But don’t resent your BFF’s if you ask them last minute and they can’t make it.

Remember that your ladies are always there for you, and are happy to help when you ask. This is a huge day for them too!

For more tips on wedding day success, décor advice, and much more, contact our Wedding Planners today to set up your free, initial consultation. Call us at 253.292.1482 or email us at contact@essenceofevents.com

Written by Samantha Macrae